Engagement Party Tips

An engagement party has traditionally been hosted by the bride's parents. However, the party may be hosted by you or your fiance. Other engagement parties are sometimes hosted by the groom's parents, relatives, or close friends. It's a perfect opportunity to introduce the two families and friends to the couple.

• It is a must that you both attend all engagement parties.
• Gifts are generally not given, and should not be expected.
• If a guest chooses to honor the occasion with a gift, accept it graciously and send a thank-you note.
• The party may be a luncheon, brunch, dinner, or cocktail party. Any type party would be appropriate.
• Avoid hurt feelings by inviting only those guests that you will also be inviting to your wedding.
• Invitations may be extended by phone or by written invitation, depending on time and formality of the party.
• Thank the hosts of your engagement party with a note and a small gift, flowers, or a dinner invitation.